Our little paradise

Mathew's first visit to Sanibel Island

Mathew’s first visit to Sanibel Island

This is one post that I have had a difficult time writing. I have a strong desire to share but am battling with the need to keep it all to myself as well. However, since our last visit, I’ve concluded I just cannot be that selfish. I just gotta share Sanibel Island with you. It has been one of my favorite spots to visit since the 1970s. Luckily, my Aunt Ruth and Uncle Lenny convinced my folks to take me there and I have been visiting ever since. In fact, I have been bringing anyone who wanted to come with me since high school and now I love sharing it with my husband and son. It has become our family spot.

building sandcastlesSo, what is so special about Sanibel Island? Well, it’s a little slice of paradise, located off the west coast of Florida in the Gulf of Mexico. It’s roughly 12 miles long and 5 miles across at its widest point. There are over 15 miles of white sandy beaches with over 250 types of seashells, 22 miles of bike paths, 7,600 acres of preserved water and land, museums, historic village, theaters, golf courses, water sports, and a great diversity of restaurants that will meet everyone’s culinary needs along with shops and galleries. On a rainy day, the island’s library is one of our favorite spots to hang out. Besides books, they have games, puzzles and of course, seashells on display.

cottagesWe’ve been visiting Sanibel as a family since Mathew was 22 months old and return almost every year and sometimes twice a year. We tend to piggyback a trip to Sanibel whenever we visit my folks on the east coast of Florida. It’s only a 3 hour drive across Alligator Alley. As you can see from the above list, there is something for everyone on Sanibel. We have a simple routine when we get to Sanibel and haven’t tired of it yet. Sure, there are new places we explore here and there but the core of our visit stays the same. We book a beachfront cottage or efficiency (whatever is available in our price range at the time) on West Gulf Drive. We like West Gulf Drive the best as it is in the more residential part of the island, fewer hotels, less people, and it gives you the feeling of a private beach. We unpack the car, explore the beach, and check out the sand castles and seashells – which shortly becomes an obsession.

seashellsSanibel Island is the world’s best place for seashell hunters; I kid you not.  The reason for the seashell abundance is Sanibel’s location and the island’s curved shape, which causes it to act like a shovel, scooping up shells from the Gulf of Mexico. The island and the land that surrounds it, create a plateau that reaches out for miles into the Gulf. Waves that hit the plateau scoop up the shells and scatter them across the beach when the tide goes down. That’s why people say that the supply of Sanibel Island shells will never run out as the waves constantly bring in more and more shells to the island. The locals dub the seashell hunter’s posture the “Sanibel stoop” – over 700 people set a new Guinness World book record in February 2012 doing the “Sanibel stoop.”

Mathew's first bike ride

Mathew’s first bike ride ever.

We visit Bailey’s General Store and pick up food and supplies for our stay. We used to bring in supplies from the mainland but found the prices at Bailey’s were comparable and they had everything we needed, plus a nice variety of wines and cheeses. During our stay, we also enjoy visiting Timber’s Fish Market to pick up fresh local seafood. The places we stay always have a grill available, some have screened-in porches so we can watch the sunset, eat dinner and not be eaten by the no-see-ums that come out at sunset. I have yet to find any natural bug repellent that will keep the no-see-ums away from Mathew, as he is so tasty. But applying witch-hazel afterwards does reduce the swelling and itching.

Bike riding through the Ding Darling using a tag-a-long

Bike riding through the Ding Darling using a tag-a-long

The next day we go bike riding. I have to say, next to walking on the beach, biking is my favorite thing to do on Sanibel. Best of all, we have had the pleasure of watching Mathew’s biking abilities grow throughout the years. On his first visit, he rode on the back of Mike’s bike in a bike seat, then we rented a tag-a-long, and on our last visit, he rode his own bike. Sanibel has wonderful bike paths that will take you through the town as well as the J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge. The Refuge has more than 6,300 acres of mangrove, bay and estuary, home to more than 300 species of birds, 50 species of reptiles and amphibians, more than 30 types of mammals and a wonderful nature center. Yes, there are alligators and we have biked by them. I’m still unsure how I feel about that.

riding in Ding

What I love about Sanibel is that there is very little new development. It looks very much as it did 30 years ago; sure, there have been renovations but very few new buildings. This is due to the a strict land use plan that was enacted in 1974, which ensures that future generations will enjoy the special ambience and quiet harmony Sanibel Island that we do today. Therefore, over 60% of the island of Sanibel is now conservation lands providing habitat for hundreds of species of native plants and animals.

a great place to be stranded

Okay, the cat is out of the bag. When looking for where to stay and what to do, visit the Sanibel Island Chamber of Commerce website. Enjoy!

 

 

 

 

 

Baby it’s cold out there

Me, enjoying the sun on my face and breathing fresh air.

Enjoying the sun on my face and breathing fresh air.

Hi, my name is Debbie and I need to be outdoors to feel normal and balanced. Currently, I live in the Finger Lakes region of New York and it has been too bloody cold to spend any decent amount of time outdoors this winter. The average temperature for January was 16°F with an incredible high of 54°F and low of -15°F. February if you can imagine, got colder, with an AVERAGE temperature of 11°F, YES, AVERAGE temperature! There was a pathetic high of 38°F and a frigid low of -22°F. That’s really cold and doesn’t even account for the relentless wind chill, which can give a person frostbite within 20 minutes of exposure. Suffice it to say, I have not spent too much time outdoors.

snow drifts look like sand dunes

Snow drifts that look like sand dunes.

I am admittedly not a winter person, but I generally try to hike weekly nonetheless ~ not this year though. The other day, I realized that I was suffering from “Nature Deficit Syndrome” as well as cabin fever and feeling its adverse side effects, which are not pretty. At first, I thought my irritability was simply hormones, but when I stepped outside into the sunny brisk world, all I wanted to do was breathe in the fresh air, let the sun shine on my face and explore my surrounding. Nevertheless, within 10 minutes, my fingers started to freeze, and my lungs felt the crushing ice cold air rushing into them.  At that moment, I knew I had cabin fever. In order to feel balanced, I need to be “in” nature, explore, walk and breathe it in. This winter has gotten the best of me.

Looking out my window. It looks so beautiful but -12F out.

Looking out my window. It looks so beautiful but -12F out.

In January, I could get by with simply sitting in my somewhat warm house looking out the windows and appreciating the sunny day and watch the birds. However, after saying so long to February and welcoming March, with no end in sight, I am clearly losing my mind. I am tired of always being cold, plus we are running out of firewood. Everyone we have called to get more can’t get to their wood until the next thaw, which could be May by the looks of it.

Snow drifts that look like waves on the ocean.

Snow drifts that look like waves on the ocean.

I know I am not alone, the Ithaca tourism website redirected visitors to Key West, FL. Their site reads: “Due to this ridiculously stupid winter, Ithaca invites you to visit the Florida Keys this week. Please come back when things thaw out. Really, it’s for the birds here now.” They also provided a link to the Keys website at fla-keys.com.

At this point, the best I can do for now is to take short walks. I park further away from stores and pause before I get back into my car. Every morning, I rush to my outdoor thermometer hoping that it will read at least 25°F, and that the day will be filled with sunny skies. Because crazy at it seems that would be delightful and a welcomed surprise.

Walking a frozen Cayuga Lake when it was balmy 24F.

Walking a frozen Cayuga Lake when it was a balmy 24F.